Monthly Archives: January 2011

Post #560: Club Clothes

Sometime in the next week or so I really need to go clothes shopping. It’s tradition, every guy needs new club clothes at least within a week prior to going out. Since I’ll be hitting up the clubs next month, I need at least two new complete outfits. I think this time I’ll go to Buckle instead of JC Penney. I’ll save going to Penney’s until I get home. I like shopping for clothes more than the average dude, but there’s nothing wrong with that! I’m glad there’s a Buckle out here now, it’s such a neat store for the area.

I just got my ass kicked 3 out of 4 times tonight in Yahtzee. I won the last game…go me!

Post #559: Facebook Makes Us All Sad Because Everyone Is Happy But Us

I stumbled across an interesting article about people’s individual perceptions about OTHER people on Facebook. I’m not going to post the entire article, but I want to post some of the main points I liked. The link is below as well if you wish to read the entire thing.

  • The January issue of Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin includes a study by a PhD student at Stanford who investigated a two-fold phenomenon. First of all, we hand-pick our Facebook statuses and pictures to make us into the best versions of ourselves. (Duh.) Second, looking at the similarly idealized spread of our friends’ lives can make us depressed, simply because we tend to think that everyone is more happy than us. The study’s director, Alex Jordan, told Slate, “[The subjects] were convinced that everyone else was leading a perfect life.” In the three-part study, participants first reported that they hid their negative emotions more than their positive ones, because they underestimated how distressed their peers were. Though acknowledging they kept their sad feelings at bay, the third study investigated the correlation between how happy a subject perceived her peers to be and how unhappy that made them. Misery, it appears, doesn’t like company as much as once thought.
  • Facebook, and social networking in general, serves as a great pile of salt to be rubbed in our collective wounds. Slate points out that the inherent one-upmanship of the site promotes positivity and sharing of good news, not bad. It has a “Like” button, not a “Hate” button. It celebrates the sanctity of friendship. Heck, it even tracks the evolution of a relationship (but unceremoniously dumps it after a split). All in all, Facebook, and the way we edit our profile pages, is meant to display the joyfulness of life (whereas, if I may posit, MySpace, with its moody and edited backgrounds and loud music serving as atmosphere, made it much easier to illustrate doubt and sadness).

http://www.switched.com/2011/01/28/facebook-makes-us-all-sad-because-everyone-is-happy-but-us/

Post #558: Not My Type

Mike: Oh that chick you were interested in…

Kyle: Mhmm

Mike: She’s not very sexual

Kyle: Yuck

Mike: So she’s not for you

Kyle: LOL

Kyle: I’ll make her sexual

Post #557: My State of the Union Response

Well now, let’s see. Last night the President gave his annual State of the Union address to millions of people across the nation. The speech has historically been a way for the President to recall past promises and update the nation of the status of each, as well as lay the foundation for future projects and programs yet to be passed to the congressional level for a vote. I think the State of the Union is a great tool to communicate these ideas, but in order for it to work, the President must speak effectively and with great detail, neither of which we saw in this year’s event.

During the speech, I wrote down several of the key points he talked about. I think several of them are fairly bold and can really make a statement, but again, the speech lacked the details needed to persuade the public – and Congress – to support them. Let me list some of the ones I want to talk about:

  • 80% of all energy will come from clean energy sources by 2035

I think clean energy is within our reach and is a very respectable decision. There have been several radical advancements in technology over the last decade that are helping us create ways to make clean energy. Unfortunately, while the intent and the passion are both there to make it happen, the natural resources we need are severely lacking. For instance, in order for all vehicles to run using corn-based fuels, just under 98% of the continental U.S. would need to be set aside as protected farm land, growing and harvesting nothing except corn throughout all 12 months yearly. This isn’t a realistic goal, quite obviously. Even if the amount of corn needed existed in order to do this, the government would never be able to establish a program that reimbursed our nation’s farmers fairly, and very few would agree to it because of the monetary loses. There are several other methods of producing clean fuels. As mentioned last night, one is by using simple water and sunlight to produce the same effect. If these programs do in fact work, are tested extensively and proven effective, it may one day happen, but the President’s timeline of 2035 is not realistic. I would think it would be closer to 2050, at a minimum.

  • 1 Million electric vehicles on the road by 2015

This is a VERY realistic goal. How we just need to work towards reducing the costs of purchasing one. More consumers would be willing to purchase if the prices were lower, and if prices are lower, the winners really are the economy, the planet, and the President for predicting it.

  • 50% of Americans will need college degrees by 2021

The exact wording here was, “within the next decade,” so this really puts the estimate around 2021. I’m willing to spot the President a year here. I would argue that at least 50% need degrees NOW, and not by 2021. The job market is competitive, and if employers are even still willing to pay for the best of the best, then you really need that degree now to have a shot at any sort of long-term career. This is especially true in the professional medical fields (excluding CNAs and Medical Assistants) and increasingly so in the Science sector as well. There’s not much to add to this comment by the President, but I’m not sure if our teenagers are motivated enough to help make this one happen.

  • Values begin with family – not government

This is where it gets interesting. For the last year or so, the government has really tried to intervene at the family level. The President has really directed a lot of his words towards our youth, and not towards the parents of our youth. He constantly speaks about education, morals, and ethics, but shouldn’t these topics really be covered by the parents in our society? There’s nothing wrong with an occasional pep rally to motivate and empower our students to achieve greatness, but the fact of the matter is that a parent has much more influence on their own child in the personal setting of their own home, than the President does on TV directing his message to an audience of 10 million of our nation’s youth. The days of society bowing to the President are over, and the days of fending for yourself are here. Parents must be on the front lines in this battle, and the government needs to be supportive of parents’ efforts.

  • 100,000 new Math and Science teachers by 2021

The goal itself here is, again, respectable, but the time limit is not. For 100,000 new educators in these two fields, we will need to allow at least 20 years to PROPERLY train them to teach effectively. Setting a ten-year time limit is simply saying that we will cut corners and staff these fields however necessary to reach the goal of 100,000, and we’ll worry about quality later. This needs work. I highly agree that these fields are lagging as compared to other nations in competition with the United States. The proof is not in our schools itself, but in the amount of people who earn their degrees here and then move out of the country to pursue their careers. This has to change, but it won’t if teenagers and college students  aren’t seeing any benefits to staying in the U.S., which they currently do not.

  • $10,000 tax credit for anyone earning a four-year Bachelors Degree

This is an example of a government program that I don’t mind putting my tax dollars towards. Anything that allows underprivileged youth and low-income parents to attend college is worth it, as long as we can ensure the program is not being abused, such as Unemployment is. The $10,000 credit is a fairly new program already in existence, and it’s still new enough to “tweak” rules as necessary to make sure it stays on track and is being used properly. This credit will surely help our community colleges more than our larger universities, but our community colleges are finally finding the funding that they need to offer quality educations to the working class.

  • Improvements in Infrastructure

I honestly don’t know how to react to this point. Infrastructure is in desperate need of repair and innovation. Our highways cannot compete with China’s, and our mass public transit systems are not fast enough or cost-efficient for people to utilize. While we need drastic upgrades, the money is not there, and won’t be for several years. We are barely keeping up with basic maintenance projects, such as repairing broken rail lines and paving roads, and even some states are allowing roads to become gravel instead of funding pavement. Everyone agrees we need better, but everyone also agrees its wishful thinking at the current time. My guess is that our railways and roads won’t even begin to compete for at least 25 years, and that’s probably too short of a guess at that. The President mentioned 25 years as well…so I guess we agree there.

  • Government consolidation within one year

This won’t happen. I guarantee it. The President gave some off-the-wall example of one agency enforcing salmon fishing laws inland, and another enforcing them in the ocean. Come on, if that’s the best example he could give, it won’t happen. We need to be consolidating government agencies, not consumer protection agencies. Nice try, Mr. President.

  • President will veto all bills with earmarks

The President tried to slip one by the public here. The newly elected Republican House has already vowed NOT to send bills with earmarks to the Senate, so therefore, how does the President even think one will make it to him? This is a promise he can keep, because he won’t ever see one with earmarks in it! Need I say more?

No doubt President Obama wants to correct our nation’s path. All leaders do. It’s ok to try a program and have it fail than to do nothing at all, but the programs we try MUST be approved by the public. If we approve something and it fails, we’ve got the President’s back. Even the greatest of leaders have failed at something. The public is not so much angry at the failures as they are with the selective hearing most of our representatives have chosen to adopt. We’ll keep trying, and eventually we’ll get it right – we always do. It will take time, but it also will take much more than a State of the Union “pep rally” to turn things around. Mr. President, we need details and action, not a motivational speaker.

The State of our Union is marginal at best.

Post #556: Too Many Vacation Choices…But I Think I Settled on One!

I’m way too indecisive. I’ve been thinking for quite a few months about where I want to vacation this year. I know I’m going home next month, but that’s not a vacation – that’s just a visitation. Prior to joining the military, I went on at least one vacation a year. New York City, Pensacola, Baltimore, Boston – you name it on the East Coast and I was there. It’s strange how I’ve failed to go anywhere but home after joining, considering I have two extra weeks a year to go and do stuff…like travel.

I think I might have found the perfect getaway for me this year. It would be June 22-27, in the Napa Valley. It’s perfect! There’s a Nascar race being held that weekend, and there are so many different things to go and do. It’s wine country, so there will be a lot of festivals and tastings to attend. Lake Berryessa is nearby, and I would most likely set aside an entire day to explore the lake, bring a picnic lunch, and do some hiking a trail-walking. A kayaking adventure is definitely not out of the question.

San Francisco is a short drive South, and I think it would be amazing to take a guided bus or walking tour around the city for a day. So much history, and again, festivals, art museums, historic neighborhoods, and the Golden Gate Bridge.

Vallejo, Santa Rosa, Napa, and Sonoma are all in the general area, and the coast is a short drive as well.

I know I’ve been mentioning that I want to visit Los Angeles for the longest time now, and I still do, but this sounds like an opportunity I just can’t pass up. Anytime I have a chance to visit history versus glam, history will always win me over.

Post #555: It’s Aussie Open Time!

I love playing tennis (even though I suck at it), but I rarely watch it on TV. The one exception to this is every January when the Australian Open is on live every evening. I’m not exactly sure why I like watching the tournament so much itself, but one of my two favorite players has already been eliminated…so go Novak!

I’m yet again having slow connection issues with my laptop. It seems like every single weekend it really bogs down at the same time. I think there’s such a high number of users here in my dorm that all connect to the same company in such a small space that it affects performance. It’s the only logical reason I can think of, but out here in Minot, logic isn’t always first on the menu as some of us know.

Post #554: My Most Serious Injury

I was looking around online for some good inspiration, and I came across this page called “55 Ideas I Hope You Write About.” One of the topics listed was “My Most Serious Injury.” Looking back on it, it makes me laugh, but at the time I wasn’t laughing at all.

I’m not positive of the year, but It was either Fall 1995 or Spring 1996, and I was on a Boy Scout camping trip in Hinckley, Maine for the weekend. When you went on a trip like that, you were expected to participate in several different types of events to earn different merit badges and awards, and we had just taken a break from some of the activities of the day when we went back to our tent site. I think we went back for lunch, but again, it was so long ago I’m not positive.

A bunch of us were killing time by goofing off and doing mostly unsafe things around the campfire we built at our site. We had some old rope laying next to the fire, and one of the guys in my troop decided to throw one end of it into the fire. When he took it out, he swung it around just to show off, and the end of it that was still burning caught me on the left side of my neck, almost on the side of my throat, but barely missing it. I still remember what it felt like, and it hurt worse than anything I can remember. Even my appendicitis didn’t hurt that much, which is why I decided not to write about it.

After the rope struck me, I thought I was on fire, and I think it did singe my hair a little bit. There was an ambulance on the camp site in case of emergencies, and a few of the volunteers walked me over to it. My mother was a wreck when she found out what happened, and she rushed over to make sure I was alright. They put some water on it, some cream and some gauze, and taped it up fairly well, but it hurt pretty badly for the next several days, and I remember having to go to school with the big bandage on my neck and having to explain what happened to everyone who asked about it.

That night, the burn was bothering me too badly, and I couldn’t spend the night in my tent. I ended up going home for the night and then returning to the camp site the next day for more activities.

So, there you have it. What was your most serious injury? Leave a comment if you want to share!

Post #553: Hot water, hot water…where art thou hot water?

January is apparently not such a great month for hot water availability. How long does a person need to run the shower before it finally shows up? Apparently longer than I had patience for. Luckily, it’s tempermental…it always comes back within a short period of time, but it does get a tad aggravating.

Anyway, I started a new journey today. I guess it’s not really “new” to me, but something I always wanted to study that I never put much seriousness into. If you’re one of my friends on Facebook, you’ll know what I mean if you look around a little. I think it’ll be fun to become involved with and “practice.”

Sometimes I wonder if having so many hobbies and interests takes away from studying each one the way they were meant to be studied, but I think this is the last one I’ll be taking on for a while. Proficiency is the key.

Post #552: Damn Internet!

Originally written – January 15, 2011

My internet is really pissing me off tonight. For about four hours now it’s been extremely slow. I’m talking dial-up slow. Even when I do get a page to finally load, half of the content is missing. It sucks because I was only able to post two responses to my discussion questions tonight for class, and I really need to submit at least four. As I type this, I have no idea if it will even publish after, because whenever I click “submit” on any site, it comes up with an internet connection error. This happens a lot with Midcontinent, the company I go through for cable and internet. They suck, royally, but other than SRT, they’re the only provider around here. SRT is more expensive, and I’m not confident that the service would be much better. Luckily, I’ve been able to get a steady enough connection to stream some music, but who knows how long that will last.

I could scream!

Update – January 16, 2011: grr.

Post #551: Florida Inmates Consume Honey Buns at a Rate of 270,000 Per Month

There may be a new way to deter crime. Apparently honey buns (yes, those gooey, sticky, doughy sponges covered in cellophane) are more popular with Florida prisoners than cigarettes and Coca-Cola.

Florida inmates buy about 270,000 honey buns per month. Fights have broken out and jailhouse murders have occurred as the result of someone taking a bite out of someone else’s bun, according to a recent story in the St. Petersburg Times. This leads us to believe that those predisposed towards criminal behavior are somehow irrationally enamored of this sweet treat and willing to go to any length to get one.

Which leads us to further suppose that these majestic sugar cakes can be used for good instead of evil. It is not a huge leap of imagination to theorize that when in the process of being mugged, raped, carjacked, or murdered, one can simply heave a honey bun at the offender and cause them to cease and desist (at least until they are done gobbling up the instant sugar rush — after that, watch out!). Honey Buns are already used as currency in our prison system, as well as serving as impromptu birthday cakes, sweeteners of illegal jailhouse wine, and even — a last meal.

Other than these homie honies, prisoners’ daily meals are made up of a sodium and fat

Florida Inmates Consume Honey Buns at a Rate of 270,000 Per Month – Miami Restaurants and Dining – Short Order.

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